Is love blind? Local actress Bonnie Lu seemed oblivious to the signs of her previous relationship.
Lu, 29, spoke to 8world and opened up about her boyfriend of two years, who she broke up with earlier this year.
Her ex-boyfriend was outside the entertainment industry and had been wooing her for a year before she agreed to date him. Although the two kept their relationship a secret, her coworkers, friends, and family knew about it because she had many friends in the entertainment industry.
Lu revealed that she realized that her ex-boyfriend was very close to a female friend who worked in the industry, and that they even lived together for a while while they were dating.
“It was a little exciting for me because I found out about this through a friend. They asked me if I had been kept in the dark or if I had been lied to. ,” she said.
During an interview with Just Swipe Ra, Lu also revealed that after following the woman on Instagram and seeing some of her photos, he had a hunch that she was living in his ex-boyfriend's condo. Ta.
However, her ex denied it after she jokingly asked him about it.
Her friend then went online and found a photo of her condo, which matched the one in the woman's photo.
Her ex-husband then sold the house and eventually told Lou that he was going to live with the woman because she rented him a room cheaply.
Lu also learned through her ex-boyfriend's mother that he was not just a housemate, but also shared a room with the woman.
Additionally, when her ex-boyfriend was meeting with friends, he would sometimes tell Lou that it would be inconvenient for her to attend, but that a female friend would attend instead.
There were “danger signals”
Feeling uncomfortable with the situation, Lu admitted that she may have misunderstood the relationship and tried to discuss it with the two.
Both the ex-boyfriend and his female friend said they were “platonic friends” as well as “soulmates.”
“If they were saying they were 'soulmates' then he shouldn't have been with me in the first place,” Lu told 8world. They can just be together. Why do you need another girlfriend by your side? And if a female friend wants to have him all to herself, wouldn't it be okay to stay with him? ”
She added: “I admit I was stupid. All my friends told me I was stupid because there were already so many 'red flags,' but I didn't notice any of them. Maybe you don't have enough love experience. ”
Regarding the reason for coming clean about the matter, Lu explained that he wanted to clear his name because he had been misunderstood as a “third party” between his ex-girlfriend and his female friend.
“We were always secretive and never admitted we were dating. But I openly said in front of my friends, 'We're in this together.' I want their friends to know the whole situation and to let them know that I'm not trying to get in their way. ”
still have debt
Although Lou has cut ties with him, she revealed on Just Swipe Ra that he still owes her six figures and needs to resolve it before cutting ties with her for good.
The ex-boyfriend claimed that his business was facing difficulties and Ms. Lu lent him the money because she intended to spend the rest of her life with him.
The money was supposed to be refunded in November, but the payment was delayed, so Lu hopes it can be resolved by this year.
After this experience, Lou learned not to doubt his abilities and intuition.
“When you really love someone, you tend to blind yourself to wanting to have a stable relationship with them,” she said.
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